Tuesday, September 8, 2009
Kenya Team Updates (from Mike Ash)
Our time here in Kenya has been AMAZING! The first full day in Kenya after arriving in Nairobi was spent flying to a town called Malindi, on the coast of the Indian Ocean. There, we were able to experience one of the classes of 30 pastors that NLC regularly helps to make happen. It was amazing to see them being challenged and learning so much. A lot of them have never received any training at all, so this was an amazing blessing to them!
On our last day there, we did an outreach where we purchased food and candy and then split up into 3 separate teams and went into a very rough area with a large Islam population. That was amazing and 6 people said yes to a relationship with Jesus. It was challenging for all of us to see the level of hunger and poverty that this section of the Kenyan people experienced and we're all still processing how we can help in even greater ways.
We then traveled to Kilifi:
For 2 days where we taught close to 30 pastors and church leaders some of the curriculum that we teach church planters in America. Also, one of our team members, Ajay, is a surgeon, and he got to teach some of the pastors about basic first aid, which is so amazing for these people to know.
On Sunday:
We were at a local church with close to 100 people and the whole team taught, worked with kids or teenagers, and invested into the lives of Kenyan people. It was an amazing sight to see how each team member was used in a HUGE way! I preached on Sunday morning and it was an awesome experience, unlike any other. The challenge at the end of the message was met with a lot of enthusiasm.
In the afternoon, we had lunch with the pastors from that church and then went down to the Indian Ocean (which was beautiful), and while we were there, one of our team members, Danielle, asked me to baptize here for the first time. So, I baptized Danielle in the Indian Ocean, which was a powerful experience.
Today (Monday):
We flew back to Nairobi and we leave early tomorrow for a few days in Kitui. We are teaching local pastors there for 3 days straight and then we are doing revival meetings at night. We are also teaching a lot of medical information and will probably have an impromptu clinic set up. The team will also work with kids and students and will most likely be able to speak in schools as well.
So, that's our trip so far! We miss everyone at home so much!
Continue to pray for us and that God would move in the heart of these pastors. The missionaries here, Kelly and Kathy, are telling me that what we're teaching is EXACTLY what they need, which is awesome!
We love you guys! Thanks for praying for us during this time!
Mike Ash
Wednesday, September 2, 2009
The 3 Hardest Things about Ministry
- The Hardest thing in Dealing with People
- The Hardest thing Personally and
- The Hardest thing about Leadership at this level.
For those of you in ministry, I hope this will be an encouragement. For those of you who are apart of a local church, I hope this will be insightful for the leadership you serve. Here are 3 things, they'll probably never tell you, but wish you knew...
1. The Hardest Thing in Dealing with People:
Knowing what's right and watching people do the opposite.
Ever since Sarah and I were teenagers my in-laws, who were in the ministry, told us repeatedly that, "The hardest thing about ministry is knowing what is right for someone and watching them do the opposite." In the last 16 years of doing ministry, I have discovered that their assessment is right.
More than judgment, it's about perception. As a leader, there is an anointing God gives you through the direction of Scriptures to be able to see from a far, what many people are unable to see up close in their lives. Down through the years, one of the most gut wrenching things about being in the "People Business" is dealing with this reality. People are what we do. We love them, care for them, pray for them, counsel them, teach them and coach them, but at the end of the day, what they do is ultimately their decision.
It never gets easier watching people make unwise choices that will lead to regret. But we have learned over the years that the best we can do is keep the relationship open through unconditional love and no judgment. As it says in the New Testament, "Mercy triumphs over Judgment." We've found this to be true, everytime...
2. The Hardest Thing about Ministry Personally:
The Spiritual Attack.
For leaders who follow me and listen to me frequently, they know I'm prone to say often that, "There is only one guy in this organization who ultimately wears the target on his chest... and it's me." When people take shots, they're aimed at me. When the devil takes shots, they're aimed at me. I have a great team who takes tons of bullets for me on a regular basis, but the reality that hits you hard in ministry is recognizing that though the team may have taken the bullet, the gun was ultimately aimed at you.
I'm not an "Overly-Spiritual" kind of guy who finds a demon under every rock, but I do know that the Bible is clear that, "We wrestle not with flesh and blood but with principalities and powers in high places." We can never forget that what we do is unlike any other enterprise on the planet for it is both natural and spiritual. At the end of the day, we are not dealing with natural forces at play only. We are in a spiritual war.
Learning to discern as a leader what is natural, living-on-planet-earth stuff and what is spiritual battle is definitely an art, not a science.
3. The hardest Thing about Leadership at this Level:
Being Misunderstood.
The larger our church has gotten and the more influence God gives us on a national level, the more I'm learning that "Everyday I make decisions that effect lots of people." And not everyone is going to agree with the decisions I make. By far the hardest thing about ministry and leading at this level is being misunderstood in the decision making process and yet not having the ability for people to understand your heart.
When a leader makes a decision, it fleshes itself out in black and white. Checks get written, policies get made, people move forward with the details. Unfortunately, the part that often gets lost in the implementation of the decision is the heart behind it. This is inevitably where misunderstanding comes into play. I'm convinced that the vast majority of leaders make decisions that effect the lives of the people they serve with extremely pure hearts. However, the distance from their pure heart to how it effects people individually is often a long one that is laden with opportunities for the heart behind it all to get lost.
As a leader, you have to learn to place it in God's hands and allow Him to sort it all out in people's minds. Too often, that's easier said than done. Too often, it's the lone dissenting voice that rings the loudest in your ear. It's the voice of disagreement that keeps you up at night. Processing through being misunderstood is by far the Hardest thing about leading at this level.
Just a bloggish thought,
Matt Keller
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